Creating the divine life of your dreams is a road very little travel. A road that is scarce for people.
The lonely road known as self-help.
If you haven’t experienced the fixed mindset of people compared to your growth mindset, you definitely will.
While you use every single day to improve a little bit, creating the reality of your dreams, others are spending countless hours in front of the TV, or on social media attending to drama. They are wasting the most valuable gift, TIME!
Most people don’t understand the idea of improving themselves to live a life of fulfillment, bliss, and one to be proud of.
Trying to relate to people who aren’t on the same path can get difficult since most people are not aligned with your values. It’s like a baseball player trying to relate to a world of basketball players. It gets lonely when everyone seems to be on a completely different path than you.
Worst of all is when you attempt to share the things you learned and believe are life changing with these people or friends and they laugh and think you’re out of your mind! The reason people do this is because they aren’t open to it. They have to participate in their own rescue.
Successful people do what failures do not.
I vividly remember a time when I started learning about health and how the body is alkaline by design and acid by function. I was excited about my new discoveries of increased health, vitality, and energy.
Then I learned about ways to alkalize my water since the human body is made up of about 65% water. And water plays a major role in alkalizing or acidifying your body.
Buying alkalizing Ph drops, I was able to increase the Ph of my water to 8.5-9 which is pretty alkaline and very healthy!
Bringing these drops to school, I could alkalize my water when I refilled my water bottle. Public water was pretty acidic at the time. I soon shared this information with one of my friends who made fun of me for doing something “out of the norm”. My friend didn’t get it, he would laugh and say some snotty remark every time I brought the drops out to alkalize my water. Some friend LOL!
Don’t let those people diminish you and steer you away from your path.
Instead focus on connecting with like-minded people, whether that is finding these people near your location or on internet forums or blogs like this one.
I didn’t even consider stopping what I was doing just because someone else disagreed or thought it was crazy.
Chances are if you’re reading this, you may find that this road is hard and not worth it. It is indescribable how further from the truth that is. Life is going to have bumps in the road, but anything worth mentioning has challenges. No matter what, repetition and determination will get you where you want to go.
This path is one most people never follow. Or they try it and when things get hard end up going back to their comfortable and complacent lifestyle.
There is one tool that will keep that burning passion at full blast and keep you focused.
Write down your compelling reasons why you are on this path (Live in total bliss, to have no regrets, to live a life of success and fulfillment, etc). Whatever your reason is, reviewing it everyday or in times of need will give you the emotional leverage to continue forward. Remember, this vision and reasoning must be emotionally compelling otherwise it want move you.
Self help is the art of growing and improving yourself, and if you aren’t growing, you’re dying.
Live the life most people only dream of.
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