Why you should be going for the kiss on the first date, whether that is at the end or when things are getting heated.
A key thing to understand about men is that they go for what they want. And since men go for what they want in life, not just women, they live the best and most fulfilled lives.
Most men don’t have the balls to go for the kiss. Or if they do, it is awkward and doesn’t do anything to create attraction.
By not going for the kiss, the women will feel something that causes her to lose attraction. That is weakness she is sensing.
She could also be sensing neediness. This kind of guy fears losing women, so he does everything she wants. Kisses when she wants to, goes where she wants to, or some other weak beta male move.
Some women might not even know why they all the sudden start to lose interest in a guy. It is characteristics like the ones I mentioned.
Women want a man her their lives, not someone that acts more like a girl than she does!
On the other hand, a man who goes for what he wants, will go for the kiss when everything is going great to intensify things. Or to see where the women is at.
Why go for the kiss at the end of the date? There are several reasons. One is that it creates attraction, which can lead to getting more handsy, leading back to one of your places and have a good ol’ session of naked twister!😉
The other reason is that it shows where her interest is at. If you are ever unsure where you stand with this women, going for the kiss is a sure way to find out where she is at.
Finding out where her level of attraction is by going for the kiss is very important. If she kisses you back, that is a fantastic sign that she really digs you. But if you get the cheek or she dodges your kiss, that shows she isn’t really into you.
Look at it like this, you take her out 5-8 times and finally make your move to kiss her and get rejected! You lost out on your valuable time and money. Getting rejected early on, with the cheek or her avoiding the kiss, is the best thing that can happen because you know how to react. 👉 PS: that means you delete her number.
Some women may say they don’t kiss on the first date, or that’s a scummy thing to do on the first date. These are ruled women which aren’t good relationship partners and would be considered out in my book.
Now it’s time to introduce several ways to go about kissing on the first date or any situation you feel is right.
This first strategy is probably the most direct, which is basically going all in for the kiss. Looking her in the eyes, gently putting your hand on the side of her face, leaning in, and kissing. You could also put one of your hands on the back of her head near her neck and push her towards you gently.
Maybe, you’re standing, you can get close and grab her hips and kiss her, or her shoulders, pull her into you! Women love to FEEL your strength. The combinations are endless.
This next strategy can go hand in hand with the one above. And this move is a little more low risk. You are close to each other, and while talking, look into her eyes, then slowly look down at her lips, then back into her eyes and back down to her lips. Go back and forth for about 3-7 seconds, and if at any point she looks at YOUR lips, that means she is thinking of kissing you. GO FOR IT.
That is a great way to kiss someone without if being forced, awkward, or weak because it is mutual that you want to kiss each other.
This last move is probably my favorite. It’s a line that breaks the ice, any and all tension, uses cocky humor, and will grab the interest level of the women in an instant. You’ll either get rejected or accepted saying this.
Side note, this move has NEVER failed for me and works wonders every time.
“I think you need to get it over with and kiss me” or “Why don’t you get it over with and kiss me” or “How about you come over here and kiss me”
Say this while looking them in the eye and see how she responds. She may lean in which means go for the kiss 👍 Or maybe she’ll give you a weird look and change the subject, avoiding the kiss 💩. This tells you that she isn’t very interested and you should delete her number after the date.
I remember my first kiss, I used that line! “I think you need to get it over with and kiss me“! We were in my car, we were laughing, she was touching my arm, and I said it! She chuckled, rearranged her body, leaned in and we went to town!
Also learn from this. My first time I had my eyes open! She had hers closed, but if she had opened them she would’ve seen these big bug eyes staring at her LOL. The head also looks huge when you are that close. So close your eyes and enjoy the moment.
The idea behind what works and gives me the most phenomenal results is having very high standards and only dating women that have a HIGH level of attraction towards me. Snotty women with bad attitudes, aren’t available, or are ruled are never people you want in your life.
You deserve the best!
That’s all, take it easy!