Have you ever heard the story of the guy getting the women of his dreams from the first women he asked out?
Dating is a numbers game.
The Biggest Reason Why:
Attraction is not a choice.
Women are either going to like you or not. It doesn’t come down to how attractive you are, your income, or the kind of car you drive.
It really comes down to biology, not logic.
You could test this out by going to a highly active place like the mall and asking 100 women out. The fact is only 10-15 women are going to accept. You gotta get through the no’s to get to the yeses.
Rejection is only apart of the process and doesn’t matter. Women are like buses anyway, there is a new one around the corner every 15 minutes. Once I accepted that there is a massive abundance of women, getting rejected was a piece of cake! 🙂
Becoming persistent on honing your skills and using every chance to practice with as many women as you can will get you ready for the ones you want to keep.
Another note about rejection is once you get really good at assessing a women’s level of attraction in you, that alone will let you determine if there is a chance. You don’t have to get rejected to know if she doesn’t like you since you know all the tells women do when they like you. But if you are ever unsure, always ask for the number, date, or going for the kiss, because getting rejected is much easier to brush off than the feeling you get from doing nothing at all.
What hurts more than anything is regret for not going for what you want in life.
I’d rather regret the things I’ve done than regret the things I haven’t done. Lucille Ball
Yes, dating is a numbers game. A numbers game you can easily win!
You have to put your self out there, the faster you know where a women stands with you the faster you can move in the right direction.
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